struck down,rise up,struck down again,rise up.whats new in life?

a thought lingering in my mind tdy is the nyp gal(tammy)incident. and NO the lingering thought is not where can i get the video and what r its details and all. i was just thinking how this young couple is going to rise above these odds someday and become stronger in the process.considering the kind of shit they r going thru now, i would think they both have def hit an all time low in their young lives.

ok have to proclaim this first : i do not encourage pmsex, and i have not done anything like what they did.

actually what struck me hard was not so much their indecent act at their tender ages. i'm aware this kind of thing goes ard everywhere...come on, don't try to deny we're living in the 21st century(check out the calender if u don't believe me) . rather it's more abt learning lessons in life.

some lessons we learn are easy..some can be easily forgotten. that is when we sigh in relief and move on with life. these stuff can be erased from ur memory.
some lessons (like this) can't. like it or not, it has left a permanent scar (which will fade wif time yes but how long) on these 2 youths. 2 youths who probably are in their 17s or 18s..just abt to embrace adulthood. we all make mistakes in our lives..and some mistakes just seem alot more serious than others,but we acknowledge the fact that all humans are bound to make mistakes. so u gotta rise up, and rise up strong during this tough time and move on. don't let this incident get u down for too long.

another incident in my memory was during my math lect when i was in y1. a guy from another fac came over to propose to a gal in my lect with flowers and all..a big badaboom, but def less intense than this nyp incident. his was more of a comical relief, in which pple simply thought this guy is really sweet but somewhat overly caught up in his emotions. no he wasn't condemned..and at this pt of time, the whole incident has died down. the video has prob stopped circulating as well.

isn't life abit cruel at times? some of the emotional turmoil some pple have to go thru 4 a silly mistake made in the air-headness of their youths can seem so permanent. some others get away wif it scott free. when pple make mistakes, the punishment for it comes in so many forms.

& in life, we can't evade making mistakes. all we can do is to accept this fact bravely, and move on strong,acknowledging that these kind of tough times don't last.tough pple do though.

won't it be nice if we get a second chance for every mistake we made?